Tuesday, November 18, 2008

what if i had no eyes?

got this from fazrul...
juz wanna share with u guys

A Story To Live By

There was a blind girl who hated herself because she was blind. She hated everyone, except her loving boyfriend. He was always there for her. She told her boyfriend, 'If I could only see the world, I will marry you.'

One day, someone donated a pair of eyes to her. When the bandages came off, she was able to see everything, including her boyfriend.

He asked her,'Now that you can see the world, will you marry me?' The girl looked at her boyfriend and saw that he was blind. The sight of his closed eyelids shocked her. She hadn't expected that. The thought of looking at them the rest of her life led her to refuse to marry him.

Her boyfriend left in tears and days later wrote a note to her saying: 'Take good care of your eyes, my dear, for before they were yours, they were mine.'

This is how the human brain often works when our status changes. Only a very few remember what life was like before, and who was always by their side in the most painful situations.

Life Is a Gift

Today before you say an unkind word - Think of someone who can't speak.

Before you complain about the taste of your food - Think of someone who has nothing to eat.

Before you complain about your husband or wife - Think of someone who's crying out to GOD for a companion.

Today before you complain about life - Think of someone who died too early on this earth.

Before you complain about your children - Think of someone who desires children but they're barren.

Before you argue about your dirty house someone didn't clean or sweep - Think of the people who are living in the streets.

Before whining about the distance you drive Think of someone who walks the same distance with their feet.

And when you are tired and complain about your job - Think of the unemployed, the disabled, and those who wish they had your job.

But before you think of pointing the finger or condemning another - Remember that not one of us is without sin.

And when depressing thoughts seem to get you down - Put a smile on your face and think: you're alive and still around.
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Too beautiful not to share......
take care people~


aisyah. said...


i cam baru je tulis a very 'negative' blog entry... hehehe...

But u know, it's gud.

bile i nak complain2 pasal my responsibilties as kakak. (no 3 dr 11) i always remember that dlm dunia ini, them kiddies are the apple(s) of my eyes.. =P

or how much i salah pilih course, I cam kuatkan semangat fikir Allah yg design the human body, so i shud be bersyukur =)


alialalala said...

sometimes we have almost everything yet we still keep complaining

we never gonna appreciate things until we lost it

but sometimes we cant just help ourselves from complaining
but it is good enough when at a time we can reflect ourselves and bersyukur how lucky we are for having such almost complete life...

tc gf

mYshah said...

sangat bermakna...
malunya byk sungguh aku komplen mcm2 kat kawan2 termasuk aku rase mcm jg je dgr ko komplain ape2...bgusnye
sigh... xpe2 akan kucuba ubah prangai buruks itu...

alialalala said...

ala shah
aku ade je complaint mcm2
tp mgkn x cmplaint sgt kat ko
tp biasala manusia kan
mmg x terlepas dr sikap buruk neh

ye2 mari kte berusaha
dan lebey menghargai dan mensyukuri ape yg kte ade~

FaNa said...

lala..ak suka bc entrynni tapi ak lebey kepada terharu cinta mampu "membutakan" seseorg..

btw, pengajaran yg berguna

alialalala said...

aku tunggu je org komen pasl cinta itu...
akhirnye ko gak komen
ye benar fana..
jali ni br betul org ckp cinta itu buta

aisyah. said...

yeah, ethically, bule ke kita butakan org demi cinta?? n y give up both eyes?

doctor itu salah..

plus, the guy saje je nak jd buta, sbb dia nak the girl jaga him for the rest of his life, instead of sebaliknya..

mYshah said...

wah komen aisyah tu mcm nak menyerang keikhlasan laki2 tu je,mcm xder laki yg ikhlas. huuhu

tp ngongs gak baik derma sebelah je kan, kreatif la ko :D

nway lets just think that the writer of the story xtahu yg derma mata bley derma sebelah saje, heehe.

aisyah. said...

yeah well, he didn't love her sincerely.

when u love someone, the last thing u want is to burden someone. cam lebih rela dibebankan dr membebankan..

so since he gave up b.o.t.h his eyes, be blind aka need assistance for the rest of his life, kira he didn't really love her. hahaha..

xde lah, i'm just talking about this one guy, with a totally ethically wrong doctor.. ramai je lelaki i kenal, and they're perfectly lovely =P

mYshah said...

heehe, okies :D

alialalala said...

u always have a different way in thinking things kan?

but yeah, u hv a point there...

well some part ade gak btulnye teori aisyah tu

mYshah said...

iya iya, aku pon stuju...
laki tu agak "jual ikan" sedikit disitu