Thursday, November 13, 2008

wanita idaman malaya???

hi u ols juz wanna share dis interesting article with u ols
i got this from nadrah`s blog...tq for letting me share dis with my fellow readers....

For sure these may be only 10 of them. There are lots more. I just hope to be one :)My girlfriends out there, check this out!


Perfect lady traits #10 Feminine, but not weak
If a man is expected to behave like a gentleman, then it is only fitting that he has a lady by his side. She walks with her hips, she speaks with a low tone and she doesn’t curse. But then, she doesn’t cry if she breaks a nail nor does she behave like a weakling when it’s time to go mountain biking. All in all, the perfect lady carries herself like a pretty flower but doesn’t have a problem getting sweaty and dirty when the occasion calls for it.

Lala says : bab nak bercakap ngn low tone mmg le ambo x reti..bak kata krel i ni da dilahirkan dgn mikrofon agaknye..x reti berenti bercakap n ckp kuat..huhu...bab ayu2 feminin cm pompuan pakai kain x pun skirt sepanjang masa pun cm x dpt dipraktikkan..but still rasanye maseh ade unsur2 kefeminan ku tu...huhu

Perfect lady traits #9 Secure/confident
A little harmless jealousy is okay and even welcomed by most guys, but the last thing any man wants is an insecure woman who is always making accusatory comments when they’re out in public. A perfect lady knows that she’s awesome and that if he messed around, it would be his loss.

Lala says : ye benar...cemburu tu perlu utk langkah x de la loser gle nak g nyebuk hal org 24-7..get a life..dush2

Perfect lady traits #8 Low maintenance, but doesn’t look like it
When she dresses up, this perfect lady can cause traffic accidents. Her hair always looks great and it looks like she spends all morning preparing to leave the house. But the beauty of it all is that it doesn’t take her more than a few minutes to get ready. She looks like a million bucks in no more than 10 minutes and her man can really appreciate that about her. It doesn’t have to cost him $3,000 to make sure that her nails, hair, and grooming is done monthly. She takes care of herself on her own time, with her own money, and it doesn’t get in the way of everyday living.

Lala says : yg pasti i x akan menyebabkan traffic jam kots...dan tdk la perlu berbelanja besar bab2 bergaya neh...ukur baju d badan sndiri~

Perfect lady traits #7 Cooks & Domestic
Men were clear that they didn’t want a solely domestic woman; they appreciate women who work and take care of themselves, but they thought it was important that she know how to cook. Why? Well, it wasn’t even about his stomach or that old adage, it was the fact that if a woman doesn’t know how to cook, that would mean that she eats out all the time, which would mean that she likely doesn’t eat very healthily, nor will she know how to feed children, should they have any together. The men surveyed didn’t mention five-course meals or anything extravagant, but they did point out that the majority of women they had dated didn’t even know how to boil spaghetti.

Lala says : ye saya berusaha...

Perfect lady traits #6 Financially independent
Men fear being taken to the cleaners more than anything else. If they meet a woman who’s unemployed and uneducated, but has extravagant plans for the future, they run in the other direction. Men don’t want a woman to support them, but they do want a woman who can support herself without the goal of one day depending on a man to pay her way through life.

Lala says : insyaAllah

Perfect lady traits #5 Desire
The perfect lady checks out her man’s ass every now and then, and she lets him know that she likes what she sees. She also "initiates", which reveals that she has a high desirability for her man. She can be a sweet and innocent lover just as easily and she can be dodgy as well.

Lala says : hurm..ala2 jinak2 merpati kah ( eh cm x sesuwai pulers)

Perfect lady traits #4 Happy
The last thing any guy wants in a woman is a cranky, crabby, unhappy woman who whines and complains all the time. This is the kind of woman that men tend to avoid because they don’t ever want to come home to that. A genuinely happy woman can easily make those around her feel happy, and she emits positive vibes that are contagious.

Lala says : kalu x de org yg menyakitkan hati tentu la i akan happy2 je donk...and giving my best n sweetest cheerful smile :)

Perfect lady traits #3 Smart & witty
The perfect lady has had some level of higher education - especially if he has one. This opens doors to more stimulating conversations in the way of general knowledge and the world around you. And a good education is usually coupled with a witty personality. You don’t have to be Sarah Silverman by any means, but witty comebacks and opinions are always appreciated.

Lala says : on my way~

Perfect lady traits #2 Beautiful & fit
Most guys admit that the first thing that attracts them to a woman is her face and body. But this doesn’t mean you have to rush out to a plastic surgeon to look hotter. Physical fitness tells a man that you take care of yourself and, if you had children together, they would lead a healthy lifestyle as well.As for face beauty, most guys admitted that, usually, when they meet a girl through a friend and she’s cool personality-wise, they end up finding her physically attractive based on that, even if they initially didn’t.

Lala says : ye yg ini juga sedang berusaha donk...utk diri sndiri~

Perfect lady traits #1 Loyal
Not only does loyalty involve not cheating, it also means taking his side in public, even when you think he’s wrong. A perfect girlfriend would never badmouth her man, nor would she make fun of him in front of his friends.As well, if he asked her to stop talking to Jim at work because it sounds like he’s trying to make a move on her, she wouldn’t argue with him about how jealous and insecure he is. She would hear him out and respect his point of view, and slowly faze Jim out of her lunch hour

Lala says : if it is worth it...there is no reason i can`t be loyal....

To my girlfriends out there:So, do you fulfill all these? Of course, this isn’t an exhaustive list, but most guys would agree that if you have all of the above traits, you’re probably married already or if you're not, you're currently in very high demand. Come on and improve ourselves girls. Perfect ladies are for perfect men! :)

Any comment(s) or opinion on this? oh yg laki2 pun bole comment..sila2... jemput2...


mYshah said...

hurm...menarik, haha~ laki plak yg 1st bagi komen ek? xpe aku bg komen bg pihak laki le~ opinion je pon

10 ye feminin itu mmg memikat tp rasenye itu mmg nature pomp. org2 ganaz camne pon pasti ade kefemininannye
9 confident but better dont bcome overconfident, secure but jgn smpai memakse.
8 ya bnar, sila ikut kemampuan diri (n pasangan anda slepas berpasangan nanti)
7 ya, sgt bersetuju ngan artile itu
6 bgusnya
5 suweet
4 sememangnya! :D
3 pernah baca yg certain laki suke yg ngong2 sket kerna bley jaga ego, tp aku rase baik yg pandai2 or sedang2, dpt bincang sama2 :D
2 haha~ ya kamu gudluck
1 ya sememangnya, tp kne igt love wouldnt too idealistik tnpa dugaan dan cabaran

hurm, byk bende stuju ngan artikel ni. tp mcm bape2 point yg lagi penting tertinggal, kan, heehe~

nway nice article, thanx for the effort sharing this.

iRma IzZaTi said...

Nobody's perfect...
But, everyone has their own quality & uniqueness...
So, jadilah diri sendiri kerana itu yang terbaik....
+ lelaki yg jujur sgt sudah mau jumpa skarang...
Aku rasa kan lala, aku dah ader stereotype yg semua laki same je...
Kadang2 luar je nmpa baik, tapi WOMANIZER!! tgk la vid clip britney womanizer ni...
She's back!!! & sooooo hot hot hot....
Merepek lak aki ni yer... Macam flight of idea pon ader gak... ngeh3...

aisyah. said...

i think i'm none of the above....

pjg gila post ni. i baca like 3-4days i rasa. haha.. baru habis! (=

FaNa said...

makcik..ak post kat blog aku ya..very interesting..huhu

naim_yaakob said...

yup..agree with irma. the best is be urself..
org yg terbaik utk kite ialah org yang sedia menerima kite di kala kite menjadi diri kite alia..
sbb kelebihan dan kehebatan kite bukan selamanya..
bile kite dah menjadi diri kite yang penuh dgn kelemahan ni..dan org yg bersama kite itu bersedia menerimenye..
itu adalah yg terbaik utk kite..
*again..honest opinion

alialalala said...

shah - ko mmg best..pnjg gle komen siap komen satu2..tqqqq

irma - iyer benar irma...waktu bercinta kentut pun wangi...hahaha...sptnye ko ade flight of idea neh..ko br pas bc buku pscyhi ke hape?

fana - amekla...ko pun da post da pun..hahaha

naim - ye naim...btul tu biasanye lebey senang nk diperkatakan secara idealistik realistiknye...jarang org nk "kentut" tyme bercerita...snggp tahan asalkan baunye wangi...(apakah yg aku rapekkan ni...irm aku da jngkit ko)

aisyah. said...

actually i rasa post ini xfair.

like we have a certain criteria we want in men too kan?

but cam brape kerat je lelaki camtu ada di dunia ini? hehee..

womenizer tu i think agak betul, but i think if we pandai jaga our guy tu, or like i dunno, trust them, everything will be ok. aha..

but mmg true, this post is too ideal.

alialalala said...

aisyah - yup tu a real life ni nothing is too ideal~