a wanted and planned pregnancy

sejak blaja O&G nih
masa history taking
it is important to ask d mother whether d pregnancy is wanted and planned or not?
why it is so important?
cause it will reflect how d mother will take care d pregnancy for d next 9 months

normally d 1st child will always be d wanted n planned one
so, d newly-become mother n father both will pretty much excited about d pregnancy
dat they will really follow d schedule 4 d follow up
taking care d pregnancy well
cause its their no 1
their very 1st pregnancy, their 1st baby
it is new n they have dis excitement

and normally, d parents wouldnt b as much excited as their 1st
for their 2nd pregnancy
that is why there is a 2nd child syndrome
where d 2nd child will always been labeled as indifferent
yet, it might not reflect all child

menjadi anak sulung dalam keluarga
i am pretty much sure
that i am a planned and really a wanted pregnancy
and it is a bonus for me for being d only girl in d family
well, mmg x dpt dinafikan sy ni sungguh la di treat ngan spesel
huhu..biasanye kalu nak mostly dapat
yang tak nak pun kdg2 dpt
being d eldest bring a lot of responsibilities
ade kejayaan yg perlu dilakarkan sbg aras penanda utk adik2 mengikut jejak langkah
kaklong kena behave, kaklong kena berjaya...baru adik2 bole jadikan contoh
i am really blessed 2 b born in my family
walaupun tdk la lahir dlm keluarga yg mewah
i noe dat both my parents r trying really hard 2 make me n both my brothers happy
yup, dorg x de la pilih kasih
but mmg x le dielakkan kalu i`m special
huhu
bayangkan td...baru je balik dr rumah
parents hanta blk kolej kul 7pm
kul 10.30pm dorg call dorg nk dtg hantar stock makanan
n belikan 2 baju kurung baru
without i`m asking for
huhu...
nasib baik dua adikku tu lelaki
kalu x dorg sure ade sntap2
huhu

fazrul smpai mengeluh x percaya tgk how they treat me
yup i maybe 23 years old already
but i think they still think i am still their 3 years old baby girl
huhu
i cant imagine mcm mana la agaknye sok kalu i da kawen nnt
huhu
mind u i x manja n spoilt ok
but i guess it`s how they showered me with their love
thanx a lot papa & mama
insyaAllah kaklong akan cuba yg terbaik

so dearest reader,
next tyme when u decided 2 have a family
make sure u really planned ur pregnancy n wanted d pregnancy
b it`s ur 1st, 2nd or even last

pengajarannye,
make sure there is proper spacing n gunala kaedah contraception yg sesuai utk merancang keluarga anda